What is the mother of all questions when it comes to testing the extent to which you are “match fit” in your life right now? As I think about this question I am aware that the postings that lie ahead each include questions – questions which relate to particular areas of personal fitness.
And still, I wonder what question or questions highlight the extent to which you are developing your “match fitness” across the whole of your life. This is the extent to which you feel able to meet whatever comes into your personal and professional life and to feel comfortable to embrace your experience fully.
Perhaps this question relates to an underlying belief, that no matter what the circumstances in which you find yourself, there’s no reason why your life should not be getting better and better. This is possible because your growing mastery of life and how to live life makes you less and less dependent on the circumstances in which you find yourself in order to enjoy life. It’s also possible because your growing mastery of life and how to live life acts to create a life which you can enjoy.
Perhaps some of the key questions that point you to this are:
- To what extent are you enjoying your life increasingly (no matter what the external circumstances of your life)?
- To what extent do you know that you have what it takes to create the life of your choosing and to handle whatever comes your way?
- To what extent can you look back on the path you have chosen up until now and know you are moving in your chosen direction?